People always gripe and complain about getting older. It’s true getting older can be something of an arduous task. With the proper diet/ nutrition, exercise and fervor for life, getting older doesn’t have to look like it used to in the days of cigarettes and booze at every turn, even in the office place.
At times libido has been known to suffer from old age or even just mature age. Again, with proper bodily care what’s left to overcome is mental blockades which are generally gained over time from negative experiences.
Just like a daily skin regimen involving…PRODUCTS…a sexual refinement regimen can be utilized to revamp or RESEX anyones life.
The current state of our world, when is comes to sex, has become a wide open playing field. You can fuck who you want, virtually when you want, how you want….if you want?.
Enter into any “sex shop” or peruse any online adult novelty store and it’s all at your finger tips. Even the leading condom brand, Trojan, has joined the ranks of sex toy manufacturers abound.
Right now I can look over to my nightstand and find an amazing array of pleasure products. Yes, I am a sex toy designer and yes I do “research” to find what I think the world needs to spice up their lives and regain that youthful innocence which we all long for once past the age of, now a days roughly 28. It all began with a healthy love of human connection and a wild curiosity of what our bodies are capable of when it comes to pushing the boundaries of winning pleasure. Thanks Charlie Sheen, an orgasm is a grand moment of WINNING!
Returning to innocence is something to me that sounds like we would be able and allowed to explore, without judgement or shame, what ever boundaries we think we have with regard to where the human body, the human spirit and the kundalini meet.
Since we love to attach products to any action or intent, as we humans do, pleasure products are here and readily available to anyone excited to reawaken that innocence. Think of them as the board games of the bedroom, the princess tiaras and boas of the seduction wonderlust, the racquets and balls of our courts ie where ever you like to “get down”.
Dusts, gels, lubes, finger paints, pasties, ropes, swings, spankers, powders in all flavors, temperatures, colors and beyond…..it’s a wonderland of sensual fun! These are not limited to partner play alone….take your time when breaking down your barriers and returning to your innocence. Play with your products alone to get acquainted. Most insecurity occurs because of discomfort or distrust of self for one reason or another. Be caring and considerate to yourself and your partner. Laugh in the bedroom WITH each other or alone, it’s the best way to break the ice. So often I’ve had partners that never want to separate because I am “in the moment”, unafraid and candid. No matter whether there’s a slip up…..no, not up the butt!….we aren’t talking about that right now…or what would seem to be a mishap while exploring, it’s all in fun and for the sake/ in the name of pleasure. So go ahead and HAVE FUN! Don’t even hold back if you have the slightest curiosity, go with it and see where your real boundaries lie beyond the pretense. (so many puns I can barely stand it!)
Think about it, when you were young and beginning to learn about everything…ANYTHING…NOTHING…it was all OK, because, “you are young”. As time and all the media has shown us, no one really grows up. We are all just big ass children roaming around with lots of allowances and responsibilities getting by and making the most of the lives we’re given. Use some of that money to invest in your pleasure chest, expand your repertoire while ultimately gaining more satisfaction!